If you’ve gone back and forth about whether or not it’s a good idea to send your child to college with a credit card, you aren’t alone. Opinions are divided, both among parents and financial advisors. The outcome depends on the kids and the parents.

On one hand, there’s a potential that everyone will benefit. If your child uses the card for budgeted expenses and then pays off the balance each month, they’ll start to build good credit history. You’ll sleep better knowing your child has a credit source in case of emergencies.

On the other hand, if your child isn’t used to managing money or living within a budget, they might fail to make payments on time and end up with bad credit history. Worse, you may have to step in to bail your kid out.

Here are some tips to help minimize the risk of your child’s credit card experience going south:

• Set ground rules. Agree on what the credit card may and may not be used for while at college. Put the agreement in writing and have your child sign off.
• Establish a budget. Talk regularly about how your kid is managing their expenses within the budget.
• Consider alternatives to a credit card, at least for freshman year. Consider using a prepaid credit card, or set up a checking account with a debit card. This may allow your child to gain experience managing expenses within a budget.

Finally, remember you may have no say in the matter. Students are bombarded with credit card offers as soon as they enroll. Credit card companies are usually happy to issue a card to any student over age 18 in his or her own name.